I hear girls complain that their man is cheating on them even when they try hard to satisfy him. However it’s time for you to check your faults, you may also be making one or more of the following mistakes, which is killing the vibes in your man. Let us look at the common mistakes I feel most women are guilty of.
Mistake 1. He is not a mind reader
I cannot understand why girls think a
man should know it all in bed. That a man has had experiences does not
make him qualified for all girls, so you should open up and tell him
what you want or else he would treat you the same way he treated the
last, learn to express your desires to your companion.
Mistake 2. Shut up and drive
I intentionally wrote this point on the
heels of the first so you do not get it mixed up. Bed/sex time is not
the time to drawl about your day or make financial demands nor is it a
time to lament about his cheating. Quit the chatter, it is a huge turn
off for most men. Let your conversation be centered on the event and
make it short and sensual.
Mistake 3. She is a boring box
Why do you have to lie down like a log
of wood and expect the man to enjoy sex with you? Let us face it, some
body response from you would encourage your man. You need not be a bore
in life and in bed. Show some enthusiasm here. Let’s just say you can
start by moving your waist to the rhythm?.
Mistake 4. She has low self-esteem
This mistake I would dare say may be the
most common, most women are conscious of their flabby ass, protruding
stomach, lumpy flesh etc. Well findings have shown that at the moment of
sex, a man is sure not seeing those flaws. Quit complaining about those
things and who says he hasn’t accessed you long before he took you up.
Learn to be confident about your body because low self-esteem brings
about bad sex.
Mistake 5. Don’t mistake tickling for pleasure
It is natural for women to be more
ticklish than men, therefore except you’re sure he enjoys being tickled
please stop it. Just because he strains his legs and moves his body or
has a smile on his face does not mean he enjoys your tickling moves. He
may just be fighting the urge to kick you in the face.
Mistake 6. She the piglet
Personal hygiene for both parties is
very important but much more for the girl. No one wants to see an
overgrown…, it is completely uninviting. Have a shower and wear clean
lingerie before going to bed. You may use light cologne to give you a
more pleasant fragrance. That sure would go a long way in enhancing the
mood.
Mistake 7. She never initiates lovemaking
I do not understand why a girl would
desire sex from her man yet keep quiet about it. Why starve yourself for
something you crave for? It is a plus to women who know what they want
and go for it. You need not hold unto your guards all the time. Do not
be scared to reveal your desires, it is sure an intriguing part that
most men want to appreciate.
Mistake 8. The school called sex
Ladies should realise that sex is not
all about the act; it is a process of learning and experimenting. Do not
be stuck up with the one thing you have known all you life. Experiment
and learn more, most men are good teachers if you are a willing and good
student.
Mistake 9. He licks your sauce you ignore his sausage
Do you like getting head? Yes! Do you
give a blow jobs? No! Huh? That is not a balance diet if you ask me; the
sauce should go with the sausage. In addition, you could ask how the
sausage should be eaten if you do not know, rather than groping in the
dark, a blow job sure requires some talent.
Mistake 10. Gliding off for a shower.
Cannot understand it when girls scamper
off for a shower or get dressed immediately after sex. What is the point
for that? Hang around in bed and relish the moment. Cuddling and
snuggling together would make the experience better!
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