Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Top Five Reasons Why Nigerian Women Cheat and How Men Can Help Them

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Everything on this earth has a reason and every question has an answer. Similarly infidelity by women has not one but a number of reasons. Situations, husbands, boyfriends, revenge, pleasure, dissatisfaction, insecurity, and many other such reasons can get women to cheat.

1. Loneliness is one big reason
Most of the women are taken for granted. If a woman leaves her job and sits at home for her husband and her kids, it is her responsibility, which is not appreciated by anyone. When there is no  word of love or appreciation, the woman feels she is taken for granted and this feeling creates differences between a couple and gives birth to loneliness. This loneliness can create attraction and feelings for another man, leading to infidelity.

2. Physically and emotionally not satisfied
Studies have proven that comparatively to men, more women fall into extramarital affairs when not physically satisfied by their partners. The above statement means women have more tendencies of falling into extramarital relationships, if not physically satisfied with their married life. Like men, even women have sexual desires that need to be fulfilled. And hence when few women are not happy with the physical part of their married life, they do fall into extramarital affairs.

3. Feel of excitement
Some women like thrill and excitement. If you might have noticed, a new relationship brings the teenage excitement back. Every woman wants to live in the fairy tale world of love, but reality can't allow that. Most women accept the truth and live with it, whereas some keep hunting for the fairy tale love of their life to keep the excitement on.

4. Need of love and romance
With passing years in a relationship, there are a number of responsibilities that erupt. And as a couple or as family members, we end up fulfilling these responsibilities. This is when the love and romance between couples die or fade away. As years pass on, love has to grow stronger and not fade away.

5. Crumpling of self respect
In a male dominating country such as Nigeria, everything has to work according to the man's line of thought. In such cases, a woman is nothing but a puppet. Day in day out, her self-respect is thrashed. In such a society, the man forgets that the woman in his house is his wife, mother of his kids and an individual.  In such cases if she comes across a man who respects her individuality, it is natural for her to develop feelings for him.

If given the right love and respect, most women will never  think about cheating on their spouses or their husbands. However if cheating is only for excitement and thrill, it is difficult to stop cheating. You can still look at the above tips and correct the flaws in your relationship. A few rectifications can enhance love and understanding between couples.


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